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From: aneal@cix.compulink.co.uk (Adrian Neal)
Date: Mon, 24 Oct 94 11:14 GMT
Subject: Re: End of ridiculousness?
To: Love-Hounds@uunet.UU.NET
Cc: aneal@cix.compulink.co.uk
Reply-To: aneal@cix.compulink.co.uk
>> Did you compose your response to Chris very soon after reading >> his message? If so I would advise counting to 100 in future. <G> ^^^ This wasn't to be taken too seriously. >Here's some interesting, important information for some of you. >I _always_ think about what I write. Upon reading Chris's message >I was infuriated. Believe me, the original message was much >harsher, and _very_ insulting. But I realize you can't write >something like that in public, I have always realized that, except >maybe in the beginning of my e-mail "carreer". But that's how I >learned. >So yes, I counted to 10.000 before throwing my message in >cyberspace. What I said was phrased wrong. However, even after counting to 10 000 you still found it necessary to use vulgarities yourself? >But I really want to get across one thing to all: THINK when you >write. E-mail is fast and friendly, but sometimes words can come >across very unfortunate. >.... >There _are_ persons behind these little ascii texts, and some of >them can get hurt quite easily. And I do have an elephants' skin, >but sometimes I throw it off, because there's a point to be made. Agreed >As for my suggestion: I see it may have been stupid to toss it up, >but during the last 15 months I have seen distributions of the >strangest things via the Internet, however illegal or morally >objectionable. So I figured _what the heck, let's say it_. No-one >could take offence at an _idea_... Like it's been said, just say no >to it. I can understand a simple no, even if it's in English. >:-) I can see now why you thought that, however you are wrong to think no-one can take offense at an _idea_, look back in history, wars have been fought over _ideas_. Adrian