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From: Chris Williams <chrisw@wwa.com>
Date: Tue, 25 Mar 1997 13:59:04 -0800 (PST)
Subject: Kate in the strangest places...
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I do a daily search through the news spool for any articles with the words "kate" and "bush" in close proximity. Occesionally I find her name in some surprising places. The most interesting recent one is in alt.politics.sex; the Celebacy FAQ. Kate appears in question #7: 7: Alternatives to Sex To be serious, there is a big disadvantage of celibacy that has to be watched out for: people look to sex for that sense of doing something *different* or forbidden; the adrenalin rush; the feeling of being *naughty*. To have an ongoing celibate lifestyle you have to find some reliable way to create that feeling. Dancing, yoga or dangerous sports all qualify in being physical and exhilarating. A less obvious possibility is a once a month gut-blowout with cocktails and fudge sundaes. Don't just eat: *feast!* (and remember to do some dangerous sports afterwards to work off the calories) Anything which breaks you temporarily out of your routine and makes you feel alive is a good idea. Another example is having a ridiculously long bath, wrapping yourself up in a towel, putting on some loud music (I recommend "The Big Sky" by Kate Bush or "Cherry" by Curve) and jumping about. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Modern culture often expects us to make everything that we do in public into a dull routine, and then use sex and intimacy to break up that routine. We need to see through the falsehood that only sex can provide that exhilaration or aliveness. Myself, I'd consider Kate a poor choice for celebate listening. Chris Williams of Chris'n'Vickie of Chicago chrisw@wwa.com "How perfectly goddamn delightful it all is, to be sure" - C. Crumb